As they say, ‘Absence makes the heart grow fonder.’ However, that’s not always the case. Sometimes too much absence could make the heart look elsewhere or, in the worst case, forget the partner completely.
The person might be their spouse, partner or even an ex – both men and women want their significant other to miss them all the time or at least be in their thoughts. It is very natural for one’s heart to seek the other person’s time, attention, and love. What’s more, women are more into needing undivided attention and love than man. They want their guy to miss them without having to ask them directly. It requires a little bit of knowledge and effort on your side too. Here is a simple guide to make your man miss you like anything in your absence.
Look your Best Whenever your Meet Him
The easiest and the most effective one-just look great all the time. Of course, it’s not the only thing that will get you all the love and attraction, but truth be told, men tend to get attracted towards good looks. You don’t need to bring any drastic change to your looks or shop extravagantly but at least put some effort into looking better and enhancing your looks. Try to take his requests to put up a red lipstick, wear traditional and earrings, or let loose your hair. The adventure here is that he knows you are doing it on purpose, and that element of being caring and showing sweet flirtation will strengthen your bond.
Don’t be Available Always
If you are the one to always take the lead in calling him or initiating a conversation, believe me, he will never miss you. So don’t be too present. Avoid text bombarding or keeping track of his whereabouts. Always be the one to end a call, though, without making him realise this and let him send that last late night text. To cut a long story short, the less present you are, the more he will miss you. So let him take the initiative of starting a conversation to keep him wanting more and more of you.
Assign Some Personal Space in Relationship
Bear this in mind – if you are constantly intruding upon him, he will never miss you. Instead, he will feel suffocated and would want to move away from you. After all, it’s only the time and space that makes him think about you. It keeps him wondering what you might be doing or when he will get to see you again. Moreover, you also have a life outside your man. So a bit of space and peace will be good for you too.
Shun the Insignificant Matters
Another most important rule of the thumb is to stop fussing over trivial matters – fretting over a delayed call/visit, not being able to keep an appointment, forgetting your birthday and so on. Do note that there is a fine line between ‘missing someone’ and ‘controlling someone’. Nobody wants to be with someone who wants to keep track of them all the time.
Cook His Favourite Meal
The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. And nothing will make him miss you more than his favourite meals cooked by you. He will consider himself a lucky guy thinking of all the yummy dishes you can make exclusively for him. So he will find excuses to come to your place to enjoy the delicacies and spend time with you. Also, if you can’t, that’s fine too. He will surely love to spend time with you merely over a bowl of noodles and a cup of coffee. After all, it’s the company, the thought and the efforts that count.
Buy Gifts for Him Occasionally
Though they don’t show, men love surprises as much as women. Make your man miss you badly by buying gifts for him that are thoughtful, nice and unique. If he’s particular about his looks, get him a grooming kit that comprises electronic trimmers, shavers, perfume for men and other accessories. You can also go for engraved gifts that have become quite a popular option. Or if he is a die-hard gamer, get him the coolest accessories, video games or merchandise. The gesture will leave a lasting and positive impression, make him miss you and more inclined towards you. Here are some experiential gift ideas for men to assist you.
So these were some of the practical tips you can implement to make him miss you crazy. Do you have any other tricks up your sleeves to make your guy miss you? Do share with us in the comment section below.