Do you have someone whose presence around you makes your heart skip a beat? Ever had dreams in which you didn’t wanna wake up? Well… We all have been passengers on the boat named ‘love’. When, most of the time, this love is one-sided, it is a crush. Having a crush is enough to make butterflies dance in our bellies and fantasise about the future together. Winning the heart of our crush becomes one of the main goals of our life. But the mission is not accomplished unless the spark is on both sides. We understand that it takes a lot of courage to reveal your feelings to somebody. TBH – It’s not at all easy. Hence, to ace your shot & make it the least awkward, it is important to present your feelings in the most elegant yet expressive manner. Mentioned below are some tips on how to reveal your feelings to your crush.
Pen Down Your Thoughts
An honest testament woven with the right set of words is more than enough to melt someone’s heart. If you have a good hand in expressing your thoughts on a piece of paper, then just go for it! Nothing is more romantic than a piece of paper that has a nervous yet eloquent fragrance of your feelings.
Impress their BFFs
This option should be played safely as you will either pass or wipe your existence permanently. Since his/her best friend(s) is the closest to your crush, impressing him/her will eventually get you in the good books of your crush. It’s a smart move to take the BFF in your confidence as he/she will smooth out things a bit for you and help you reveal your feelings to your crush. Think of it as earning brownie points!
Notice Minute Details About Them & Appreciate
Now that you have decided to get over your nerves and reveal your feelings to your crush, it is paramount for you to give them your undivided attention. Know what s/he is into, discover his/her interests and try to make a connection. Show sincere interest in their conversation, make efforts to know them, when talking – maintain eye contact and appreciate him/her even in the smallest things. This will help you form a genuine bond and will give signs that you might be into them – 75% of work done!
A Romantic Outing
Once you have moved a step further, the next move, to make someone adore your presence in their life, is by spending some quality time with them in which you both can forget all the worldly hustle and bustle. A perfect outing to explore beautiful places around can act as a perfect catalyst to make your bond stronger. So put your glasses on and hit the road! You can also buy a romantic flower bouquet or gifts online to make them feel special when revealing your feelings to your crush.
Make it Easier for Them
We are not giving out any load of nonsense but some things are not in our control, no matter how hard we try. Though you hope for the best and go on building castles in the air, there might be a teeny-tiny possibility that your crush might not reciprocate your feelings. Rejection hurts – literally! It fills you with the fear of vulnerability and helplessness. But rejection doesn’t mean the end of the world, right? Life is not always give and take. Therefore, when you share your feelings, don’t sound or make them feel like they have to respond affirmatively.
Allow us to remind you again – Don’t lose yourself in the process of loving someone so much. After all, being yourself is the most important thing of all. You are already trying hard to impress and woo them but don’t get overpowered with that feeling. Just be your real self and don’t pretend to be someone you are not. Let them appreciate and fall for the real you.
To put it in a nutshell, stay confident and be who you are as there is nothing more charming than being the natural version of yourself. Might we also suggest not to get your hopes too high? And don’t even think of dropping a drunk text! Rest, if you want to play it safe and don’t want to get busted, here are ways to find out your crush likes you back.